"Don’t feel bad about not having that person in your life anymore. Don’t blame yourself for everything that had gone wrong, for everything that made you walk into separate ways. Stop making yourself look desperate and pathetic by begging him to come back. You can cry and mope and be bitter and feel the pain for a week or two, but do pick yourself up. I know that that person has made a significant impact in your life, that it would never be the same without him/her around. However, you will also get used to it. You’d tend to miss him/her a lot especially during the nights when you find it difficult to sleep. You will wonder how he/she’s doing at the moment during rainy days and you’re stuck at home, counting the raindrops on your windowpane. You would think of him/her and all your moments together when you stumble upon a photograph at the bottom of your closet when you’re cleaning it, or hear your theme song on the radio. An even greater pain will strike you during moments like those mentioned above. Cry because he left, because he/she made you feel like you’ve found forever with him/her, because that forever has ended and promises were broken. But never ever cry because you think you are not enough, that you still lacked something when in fact you’ve done everything in your power, said the most pathetic but sincere things just to make him stay. Yes, you are crying now. But one day, you’re going to smile again. It’s not really your loss; it’s his/hers. That person can easily find someone prettier, smarter and funnier than you. But he/she would have a difficult time trying to find someone who won’t give up, won’t let go, and won’t be afraid to commit to him/her only — someone like you. So dear, dry up your tears and smile. One day, you will find someone who will treat you right and love you the way you deserve to be loved. Don’t ruin yourself because you gave your all for someone who ended up hurting you. Instead prepare yourself for the new love that is on its way to find you."
Here’s to everyone who fell in love and did everything to make it last but were still left behind. (via escafeism
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